I listened to the educators discuss a student that was struggling in the classroom and has struggled for multiple years. One word surfaced over and over...FOCUS. The common phrase was, "If they could focus..."
I sat back and listened and I wondered. Is this an issue at home or just school? Is the student engaged in the lesson? Is the student bored? Is the student attention-deficit?
I wanted to listen first and then brainstorm solutions. As I listened I discovered the student is acting out more and more. The student is falling behind academically. The student doesn't appear as happy as they once were. All these things bother me deeply.
My next conversation was with a group of parents. In this particular situation none of the parents were "the parent" to the child previously discussed. As I sat down with the parents I asked a simple question, "What can be done to improve Warner?" The responses were very positive. Parents commented that they were very satisfied with the safety, the education and the communication. I did receive one suggestion about improving report cards, but then a parent spoke up and said, "I hear some people say that any child that is bad must be ADHD." I sat back and processed this. I thought about the context of those conversations and I didn't want to overreact but I also didn't want to completely blow it off.
What I then said to the group of parents is that "bad" behavior is a management issue, but ADHD is a medical issue. I went on to say this:
When students struggle in the classroom we as educators try our best to figure out why. We want to know if it is a learning issue, an understanding issue, an eyesight issue, a hearing issue or is the child unable to control themselves. As educators we truly want to rule out as many things as possible. The one issue that continues to come up is the ability to control themselves. We have forms that parents and teachers complete to get a better handle of things, but even after all that some parents will say, "I'm not giving my kid medicine!" What you will immediately hear from me is, "I'm not a doctor, I'm not ever going to tell you to medicate. I leave that to the pediatricians." What I do tell parents is that a classroom focus issue can be helped with an improved diet, but more importantly I ask the question, "How does your child sleep?"
So often I'm told that children do not sleep well or still sleep in their parents beds. This is a big issue. Studies have shown that poor sleep can cause learning issues and can appear to look like attention-deficit disorder. I've been surprised at how many students do not get a good nights sleep.
Going back to the title of the post, Is it always ADHD? My answer is a resounding NO! I strongly encourage parents and educators to look at sleep, diet and exercise. These three components can make a huge difference in the success of a child.
Please understand that I'm all about finding solutions. If you exhaust your efforts, I strongly encourage you to sit down with your child's pediatrician.
Please check out the articles below for more insight.
Articles Worth Reading:
Sleep Problems linked to Attention-Deficit Disorder
Sleep Problems can cause Learning Problems
Brain scans reveal ADHD differences
Myth or Fact on ADHD
ADHD diet: What to eat, and What to avoid
Learning To Thrive With ADHD
Videos Worth Watching:
How to parent a child with ADHD... (5 min)
Humanity at its finest! (11 min)
Open Letter to Moms! (4 min)